I'm supposed to have the net up at my 'homestay', but the ceiling is impossibly high and the mosquitoes few. |
After a week, we each moved into ‘homestay,’ to live with local people
and learn their ways. The locals get a
lot of training before meeting us, so they won’t freak out when the Americans
hang their underpants to dry in an open area or expect 1,000-calorie lunches or
refuse to eat meat or go to church or something. We trainees got a lot of pre-homestay briefings,
too, informing us that we should keep our undergarments in our own rooms and
communicate our needs clearly if we’re not getting enough to eat. So I moved in with a 70-year old widow named
Wilhelmina, who has hosted more than ten trainees over several years. She’s very welcoming, laughs a lot, and
communicates clearly if I don’t lock the door properly or study ‘too
hard.’ Ha ha.
My typical day begins at about 4:00am, when the neighborhood dogs start
barking. Most homes have at least one
dog on guard duty, and often two or three, so my residential neighborhood gets
a choir of about thirty. I fall back
asleep, or at least doze a bit, until the alarm rings at 5:30am. It’s still dark out. On bath mornings, I jump right up and creep
down the hallway to switch on the geyser – pronounced ‘geezer’; it’s the
hot-water heater. A bit of stretching,
some washing and dressing, and two Weetbix cereal bars (think shredded wheat,
but thicker shreds) with a banana, some milk and hot water, and I’m out the
door around 7:00, by which time it’s light out.
It’s a one- or two-kilometer walk to the training center, gazing at the
mountains around the town and at the ground.
There are skinks running about, and I don’t want to step on one (though
they’re quick enough I probably couldn’t), but there’s also the small
possibility of snakes. Really toxic
snakes, even.
An unusual day: the Hon. Thomas Daughton, US Ambassador to Namibia, joined us for a classroom session. The Peace Corps staff sang for him, saving him from the Trainee Chorus. |
On Mondays our class of 31 learners and about a dozen staff and
trainers begins the day at 7:30 with a cappella renditions of the Namibian and
American national anthems, plus a verse or two of the African Union anthem, and
a Namibian folk song or two. On
Wednesdays and Fridays we do the folk songs, and on Tuesdays and Thursdays we
don’t sing. We have two hours of
language training almost every morning, then a break for ‘tea.’ Instant coffee, tea, instant hot chocolate
and juice are the beverages, and there’s a food offering as well. That’s either packaged cookies – rather
delicious ones – rusks (dry, fairly bland, sweet cookies similar to biscotti) or,
most often, soft white rolls, peanut butter, butter and jam. Then we have another two-hour class, an hour
for lunch, and then two ninety-minute classes in the afternoon. At 4:30, I stagger homeward, unless there’s a
get-together at the beer garden next door or it’s Monday, when one of the yogic
types puts on a 20-minute routine, or Thursday, when we do a longer yoga
routine. Wilhelmina has dinner ready by
5:00: meat, starch and plenty of it, and
sometimes a salad so I don’t forget completely what vegetables look like. We eat together if I’m back at 5:00, but she
doesn’t like to wait for me on days I’m coming in later. She washes the dishes; I dry and put away,
and then she watches half an hour or an hour of American soap operas while I
study a bit and relax with reading, writing and music. We are both usually lights-out by 10:00 at
the latest. Some of my colleagues report
that their families watch ‘soapies’ from various countries for hours. Around midnight, the dogs do some more barking.
Sundays are especially meat-intensive. I ate most of the pork and almost all of the chicken. The squash was delicious. |
So, classes take most of the day.
As a community-economic-development (CED) volunteer, I have had classes
in bookkeeping, personal finance, registering a company in Namibia,
income-generating activities, creating a business plan and much more. Many of us, of course, knew a lot of this
information already, through work or school or volunteer activities. Our group of 13 is also partnered up with 13
local people who want to start businesses, and we hosted a business skills
workshop for local entrepreneurs and a market day as well. More on those projects later.
The 13 CED volunteers move into the big room (with the lousy acoustics)
with the 18 Community Health volunteers for several sessions weekly on topics
concerning safety, medical and cross-cultural issues. Safety includes warnings about harassment and
stalking, prohibitions on riding in the back of open pick-up trucks or in
commercial trucks, and ideas about how to intervene if you see another trainee
or volunteer at risk. Medical sessions
have included nutrition reminders that included a recommendation to rinse any
food you’re not cooking in a bleach solution, a truly grisly slide show with
photos of genital warts and other STDs, and a couple of heartbreaking videos,
one telling a bit of the story of Danielle Dunlap, a Peace Corps volunteer who
died of malaria in Ghana in 2013, and one featuring five volunteers who
contracted HIV while serving.
Many of the cross-cultural issues sessions have dealt with the ways Namibian
life, mores and people differ from American, both actually and
stereotypically. In one session, our
trainers asked questions about American habits they had observed while we
Americans asked about Namibian habits we had observed. Some of the questions from the
Americans: “Why doesn’t my host family
rinse the soap suds off the dishes?” and “Why is the toddler in my family
allowed to hit her parents and siblings?”
The answers from our trainers were, “Why would we?” followed by a chorus
of Americans describing dish-washing in England, Ireland and Canada, where the
suds are a permanent part of the place setting; and “Poor discipline. She shouldn’t be hitting anyone, but some
families don’t teach their children proper manners.” Corporal punishment in the home and schools
is not uncommon here; though it’s illegal for teachers to hit learners, they
often do so.
A kid I met one day. They mostly love to have their photos taken. I hope someone is teaching her manners without hitting. |
The Namibians wanted to know, among other things, why Americans eat so
much peanut butter and what we carry around in our gigantic knapsacks. The answer to the first, of course, is
because Peace Corps’ Namibian staff keeps feeding us peanut butter, though we
actually talked about nutritional density and cost-effectiveness. The answer to the second, of course, was that
we carry around about fifteen pounds of paper they’ve given us with information
about the national economy, self-assessment, safety and security,
sexually-transmitted infections, personal budgeting and how to tell a taxi
driver to drive slower, not cheat you and let you out here as you need to use
the bathroom. There’s also a three-pound
Afrikaans-Engels woordeboek vor tweetalige aanleerders. That’s a dictionary for bilingual learners.
We are all feeling quite well prepared for service by this point – week
six in the process – and perhaps just a tiny bit sick of each other. Nonetheless, on weekends there’s usually some
group activity, like hiking in the mountains that ring the town, gathering for
a movie or visiting a local crafts market.
It’s actually a fairly impressive group, and getting to know some of the
members has been a pleasure and an education.
Everything’s an education lately.
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